21 reasons not to commit suicide

21 reasons not to commit suicide

 

1. I stay because I discovered I’m not ready to go. — Lex Tobin
2. I stay because living and loving are not possible if I am gone. I would miss all of this senseless beauty. Making the world a better place for my granddaughters is worth any pain. — Cheryl Sharp

3. I stay because I'm now in a unique position to educate, advocate, offer hope, and save lives. [Two] specifically that I know of. — Liz Mitchell

4. A dear friend’s brother died by suicide several years ago. The memory of his funeral — of the intense singular suffering that comes with losing a loved one to suicide — has kept me from ever attempting suicide again. No matter how bad my depression gets, I know that there are people who would be devastated if they lost me, and when it’s too hard for me to live for myself, when every cell in my body wants to give up, I tell myself that I will keep living for them, and I do. And bonus: eventually the depression lifts, because with time it always lifts, and I’m able to start living for myself again as well. — Melody Moezzi

5. I feel like overcoming a lot has put me in a position where I'm able to help people.  At this point, I feel like one of my purposes in life is to educate people on suicide via a lived experience perspective — something I feel we don't see enough of. That keeps me going if I have bad days.
—Caitlin Coleman
6. I stay for my dog, I stay for my family, I stay to see what I’ll create next. — Logan

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7. I stayed for my sisters, my grandparents, and I eventually came to accept, I stayed for me. — N.P.

8. I stayed for myself and for my kids who accepted me as their mom with all my flaws and my talent! — Nancy Nettles

9. I stay because my students deserve an adult who always puts them first and fights for their well-being. — Marie

10. I stay because if I leave, what is my story going to tell? I want to be stronger than that. I want to be more vulnerable with the precious friends and family around me. I want those people that are feeling the way I have felt, to know that things can get better. To know it’s OK to ask for help even if it seems stupid. To realize that maybe one day you’ll find what you are looking for, but even if you don’t, things will be OK. You can take a few wrong turns and find out that life still turns out OK. I want to have a story. Not one cut short by frustration. — Cayla

"I stay because there are so many more adventures to be had and so many fires of hope in people's souls to ignite."
11. I stay because that's the natural course I'd rather follow. When I feel differently, I get help from the people who know the struggle. — MSB

reasons not to commit suicide

12. I stay because there are so many more adventures to be had and so many fires of hope in people's souls to ignite. — Rhianna Brand

13. I don't have one big reason. Instead, I have thousands of little reasons, ranging from family and friends to the episodes of Bob's Burgers I won't get to see. Each reason, no matter how small, is an act of resistance that my suicidal thoughts would have to knock down. It's sort of a way of passing time to ride it through. — Alyse Ruriani

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14. I stay because I finally found long-term happiness. While it was terrifying to realize that I now had to relearn how to function as a happy person, it was worth it all. I stay because I want people to know of all the things I live with, and have lived through, and see that I am not only still here, but I am truly happy. I stayed to be a source of hope to those facing situations like mine; for those who feel forgotten and alone. — Cecelia Markow

15. I was given a second chance at life so I stay because 1) I want to honor the people who saved my life and 2) I'm stubborn. — Tina Aspegren

16. I stay because life is full of beautiful surprises that I can't even fathom yet. I know there will be pain too, but I've learned to cope so much better. I think of all I would've missed out on if my attempt was successful, the most important that I never would've been an aunt and watch my nieces grow. I stay so they will have me to support them. — Melanie Demoree
17. I stay with the help of my service dog, Hero. Medicines don't work and I was going to give up until he came along. — Megan Alldredge

18. I chose to stay so that I could have the opportunity to help others choose life over suicide. — Teagan Kempe

"I want to stick around and find out who I become."
19. I stay for the loves of my life (boyfriend and dog) and for the adventure of writing. And [because] when I stay, I can help others to stay as well. — Jen Karner

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20. I choose to stay for my two cats, the people I love and hold dear, the next gorgeous sunrise and epic thunderstorm, and the next good book or awesome cup of tea. The biggest reason I choose to stay is because I'm not ready to choose to go. — Ashley Shoemaker

21. I'm not who I thought I was. I want to stick around and find out who I become. — Paul Currington